So my ex and I our debating on this question. He believes sex is more intimate then oral . I don't think it is. We can find a lot of females answers online but not from males. So please male or female help us out and tell us why you think that if you want. THANK YOU!!!!
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I’m going to chime in on this one. The epidemic that most of us suffer from in our culture is that we associate intimacy with sex. In my opinion one has nothing to do with the other. Intimacy is determined by intent and not the mechanical action.
On the correct day, with the correct person who has a deep emotional attachment with you – a foot message can be the most intimate and fulfilling act you have experienced.
A hand job with a blow finish after a back rub in a message parlor will provide physical relief, but I would not dare to say that it is emotionally fulfilling in any way. No intimacy.
This is why emotional affairs are SO much more dangerous and damaging then a physical affair.
This is why a widowed woman will sign over her life savings to a man in India that she has never met in person. The emotional bond and intimacy they shared and built together over time over rode any ability to make a reasonable decision.
Have as much sex as you like, in any way that you like it. Save the intimacy and connection for someone you care about and every act, large or small, becomes meaningful and intimate.